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April 3 in 30: Simplicity

April 8, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

3 in 30 buttonI’d like to be able to declare that all the bins are unpacked, my house is completely organized, and I am on top of it all.

In reality, it’s been a whirlwind since we arrived, with jet lag and the cold. We are furnitureless. We had houseguests approximately two weeks after our arrival and since they left, JavaMan has been in Korea addressing a visa issue. He returns on Wednesday. I’ll be so glad to see him.

I was so tired tonight, I sat down to watch the end of a movie with my kids and fell asleep on my bed fully clothed, with a sweater and an apron! THEY kissed ME goodnight, and I woke around 2:30 a.m. bewildered at what had transpired!

However, the homeschool room is looking like and functioning as a homeschool room, we’ve been posting weekly at Hold the MSG (Mandarin lessons for kids), and the kitchen is up and running. In fact, I’ve been downright experimental there. I’m determined to make gluten-free work here, since we’ve seen such benefits for Sweetpea. So far, I’ve located recipes for and/or experimented with:

  • pizza dough – nailed this one. It’s so good, and yes, I will share very soon
  • bread – found a simple recipe with easily accessible ingredients and tweaked it–the mix was slightly wet the last time, which with gluten-free results in a fallen loaf (although it wasn’t too bad). But going to take another run at it tomorrow and see what we can do to perfect things
  • dumplings! This is a huge coup! We’ll still end up in situations where we’re at someone else’s house or at a restaurant and can’t avoid it, but if we can make our own dumplings at home, gluten-free, it will go a long way.
  • crackers – yes indeed, homemade gluten-free crackers
  • matzah – this won’t be something we’ll eat every day, but it came in handy over the weekend for our traditional Seder dinner

I’ve continued to work on freezing strawberries and mulberries so we’ll have berries to eat for the rest of the year, and I even located a simple pectin-free strawberry jam recipe so I can deal with some of the strawberries I’d rather not throw away, but aren’t good enough to keep for eating. Today I figured out how to get my hands on jars for the jam.

But as more and more time gets consumed by living–not to mention that this week we slipped back into the homeschool routine–I’m feeling the need to simplify my online activities. So this month, I’ve joined the 3 in 30 featured challenge: Simple Blogging.

Here are my goals for April:

  1. Work through Simple Blogging – This involves reading a set number of chapters per week of the eBook and incorporating changes into my blogging life. For the most part this week, I felt pretty good about what I read, although I confess to allowing myself to succumb to online distractions when I’ve sat down with the intention of blogging–what the author, Rachel Meeks, calls “productive procrastination.” At some points, I was able to pat myself on the back–for having a clear purpose for my blog, for example, or for using Evernote for organization–and at other points, I felt a gentle wrap on my knuckles for things I know to be doing and don’t do enough–like planning posts in advance. I tend to keep mental notes, which clutter up brain space and can be easily lost! I have begun to implement some of these suggestions, but still have work to do.
  2. Get into a proper routine – Because our days are exactly the opposite to North America (12 hours ahead means I’m sleeping when most everyone I know is active), it’s very tempting to check email and Facebook first thing in the morning. Did so-and-so get back to me? Are there blog comments? What are my friends and family up to? However, this doesn’t work well with our family, and means my kids greet me in the morning with a computer on my lap. Not okay. It can also delay getting breakfast and homeschool started. I am determined to get back to a proper morning routine. We live here now, and if people have to wait longer to hear back from me, or I have to wait longer to hear back from them, so be it. My family is more important.
  3. Get Hold the MSG posts on a better schedule – There’s quite a bit involved in posting the weekly posts. It takes 3 hours via VPN to upload the posts to YouTube, for example, and after a little meeting with the kids last week, we decided to break up the work into segments, so it’s not too much all on one day. We’re planning and working on the next post right after the last one is live. The great side benefit to this is that our kids are focusing much more on their own Chinese learning, and much more motivated to practice.

What does April hold for you? Are you spring cleaning or making any goals?

- Carey Clark

Carey is a homeschooling mother of three and author of the contemporary inspirational novel After the Snow Falls. She blogs here about the many adventures of her expat family.

March 3 in 30: Culture Shock?

April 1, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

3 in 30 buttonI’m a bit frustrated at the moment. Bear with me. I guess I’ve forgotten just how much energy it takes to live here. Like crossing the street. When we lived here before, I had Sprout in a stroller, and each of the older two children firmly grasping a handle. Crossing the street here is an extreme sport, but clumping together and staying organized helps. You have to outwit the drivers. A green “go” signal for pedestrians means it might be safe to begin crossing, but be sure to be on the lookout for cars, nonetheless.

Gluten-free is a bit more challenging, and so is using the Internet. Things are slow and sometimes unavailable. And today, because they don’t trust my location (and don’t read their emails), Paypal has locked down my account for the second time in two weeks. Thanks so much.

It’s also become cold again.

I’ll be okay. I’m aware a lot of this is probably culture shock, and I just needed to vent. (Thanks for that.) It likely doesn’t help that JavaMan is gone for the week to Korea, squaring up an issue with his work visa.

Onward: March goals.

I’m doing all right. I’m actually psyching up for April’s goals because I’m craving things like routine, a return to homeschool and a menu plan. But first, let me report on March. My goals for the month were:

  1. Sleep well before and after the move. I did okay before the move. Since then, I’ve allowed Paypal and the complete disappearance of my new vlog site, HoldtheMSG.com to rob a few hours when it was daylight back in North America. I need to let it go. I live here, and things take longer. I had made that mental adjustment when we lived here before; I need to get back into that place again. It’s much more restful.
  2. Maintain a healthy exercise schedule on both sides of the move. I did okay before we left, and have been itching to get back since we arrived, but I need to buy a couple of things before I can make things happen–we’re using my exercise mats for a little extra padding right now. While JavaMan is away, I’m considering stealing the one from his side of the bed to begin my Pilates routine from Bodylastics. To get back to the other workout, I need to buy a pair of 5 lb. weights. I had planned to do that today, but readjusted my plan about five times because dragging three kids on multiple buses and train connections (standing room only) and walking around carrying heavy bags full of goods from the market in addition to said 5 lb. weights gives no joy. We decided to go to IKEA/Sports store (they’re side by side) later this week. IKEA because we need one of those thingies you can stack multiple toilet paper rolls on. Sprout can’t reach the wall-mounted one and keeps calling out for help with the TP every timeshe uses the bathroom. That can’t go on forever! On the plus side, as you can tell, I’m doing a lot of this running around on foot. In addition, the other day, we climbed “our” mountain, so the month hasn’t been without exercise, just not the kind I’d hoped to be doing.

    If you look real close, you can see our home from the mountain top.
  3. Packing/unpacking. My goal was to have the homeschool room in order by the end of March. I made this goal without seeing the volume of books JavaMan brought from the south. We had inherited bins of books from other homeschooling families who’d lived in that city previously. Two bins had my name on them (although I don’t recognize a lot of things in them) and JavaMan grabbed another one in a moment of madnessinspiration because it had a bunch of really great classic books in it. So can we be charitable and say that the homeschool room is a work in progress? Until the furniture arrives, we don’t have enough shelving to accommodate everything! Pumpkin helped today to get things organized enough that we can start slowly back to homeschool tomorrow with a skeleton schedule: Chinese lessons, Math and History. We’ve also resumed our nighttime routine of read-alouds/games (alternate evenings) and quiet reading.

    How are you doing with your goals this month? Don’t have any? Consider hooking up with Ashley Pichea’s 3 in 30 motivational program!

    - Carey Clark

 

 

March 3 in 30: Getting There

March 25, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

3in30I’m feeling not too bad about March’s goals. Despite the massive obstacles this month, I think for once I managed to make some realistic goals and so I’m actually getting somewhere with most of them.

  1. Sleep well before the move and beat jet lag as quickly as possible after – I was not doing well in this department and started to fight a cold due to the lack of good sleep. Then a dear Chinese friend came through and showed me where I could buy a custom made cotton-filled duvet (for less than department store prices, mind you). Oh. My. Goodness. It is divine! For two nights now, we have slept in a little cocoon, completely oblivious to the temperature. And whaddaya know? I feel better. I have more energy. I can climb mountains. Well, possibly not the last one, but we plan to soon, since there’s one in our backyard. Seriously.
  2. Maintain a healthy exercise schedule coming into the move so I can get back at it as quickly as possible afterward. Okay, more hefting of heavy bags, more walking up and down the hill to the market. (Actually tonight I ran, since I was trying to make it before they closed.) But no actual exercise. Before we left Canada, we bought a Bodylastics system, and I have every intention of getting into a routine with the Pilates portion of the program, but my exercise mat is doubling as a sleeping pad right now, since we still have no furniture, and I’m feeling it is more important for it to fulfill that role at the moment. I want to get back into using my new favorite exercise video, but I need two five-pound weights. At the moment, we have more important priorities for our spending than that (like a cozy duvet). We also had a bit of a problem. When we moved into this apartment, the hot water in the shower lasted 3 minutes. That’s barely long enough for one person to take a shower! And with the coolness of the apartment, it just didn’t seem like a good combination. I really had no desire to get sweaty and then have only 3 minutes to get unsweaty again. So I avoided sweat. However, the landlord installed a wonderful new hot water heater on Saturday–so wonderful I was able to take a nice hot bath! I’m promising myself that this week I’ll pull out the mini-trampoline and get something accomplished that actually qualifies as exercise.
  3. Finish packing before the move, unpack and organize the kitchen, bathrooms and homeschool room after the move to get things up and rolling ASAP. Did my best at this goal. Still not completely packed, but the homeschool room is looking more or less put together (minus the missing furniture) and the kids each have a bin now with their own clothes inside, in lieu of drawers or closets. I assembled some small shelves so they could organize their belongings and their room actually looks quite lovely. (They’re all sleeping in one room right now, until furniture and heat arrives.) I have begun to sort through my clothing as well, and the kitchen is 90% there and quite functional.

Are you accomplishing your goals this month?

- Carey Clark

March 3 in 30: Slowly Slowly Come

March 17, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

3 in 30 button
In Chinese, there is a phrase, useful in many situations: “man man lai.” Literally, it means “slowly, slowly come,” but the intended meaning of the phrase is roughly equivalent to “one step at a time” in English–the idea that some things don’t come quickly, they take patience and perseverance. Like language learning. Like all my goals for this month.

  1. Sleep well before the move and beat jet lag as quickly as possible after – We all slept through the night the very first night here. But the next night, the girls woke up at 5:30 a.m. and came into our room. So we all were awake. I’ve been crashing at the kids’ bedtime, and that makes me wake up early–like last night, when I woke up, convinced it was morning, before 4:00 a.m.
  2. Maintain a healthy exercise schedule coming into the move so I can get back at it as quickly as possible afterward. Didn’t get that last workout in before getting on the plane because I realized it would leave me with sweaty laundry and I knew I didn’t have time to do anything about that before we left. Haven’t exercised since arrival, unless you count hefting heavy bags of meat, vegetables, cooking wine & soy sauce up the hill to our house, and the trip back to get the buckwheat noodles that I forgot to buy the first time (which I think you should).
  3. Finish packing before the move, unpack and organize the kitchen, bathrooms and homeschool room after the move to get things up and rolling ASAP. My ideals are meeting with reality here, although I am making slow progress. We’re hampered a little by the heat–or rather lack thereof. On Friday, I was out meeting a friend and getting my cell phone SIM card in the cold and rain and came back to the cold house with a bit of a chill. Holed up in the warm rooms for the rest of the night and didn’t even do the dishes! (Don’t tell my mother.) I just couldn’t face the freezing kitchen.

- Carey Clark

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