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A New Rhythm

March 26, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

Note: Two new reviews for After the Snow Falls came out this week: Mom in Love with Fiction and B00K R3ViEWS. I’d be delighted if you’d check them out.

It has been good to work our way back to the normal rhythm of life here. I must confess getting back in the groove of cooking and cleaning and market-going on top of the language and cultural challenges hasn’t been completely smooth. For example, buying butter and cheese and other “Western” foods has to be done at a specific warehouse store quite a distance from our home.

When we lived here before, it was convenient to use the in-store ATM to take out the money to pay for purchases there. However, we discovered yesterday that doing so wasn’t that easy. They’ve apparently replaced their machine with a different bank’s machine, and our Canadian debit card didn’t want to talk to it yesterday. We walked to the nearest bank that would work and discovered that the machine there was broken. At least an hour later, we were on our way again.

JavaMan and I usually handle this kind of experience with a shrug of the shoulders and a philosophical, “We’re in China. What can you do?” But Pumpkin had had enough.

Nevertheless, we’re still basking in the glow of all the wonderful things about being back here again, and feeling immensely thankful. And still counting to 1000 Gifts along with Multitudes on Mondays at Ann Voskamp’s blog:

190.  Our kids have made new friends! It really is a case of being completely blown away by blessing. We’d prayed for friends for them, but could never have imagined they’d find friends so quickly. And Pumpkin has even found a friend who is as enthusiastic about Star Wars Lego as he is.
191.   Our new duvet. I’d promise this will be the last time I’ll mention it, but I’m sure it’s not. I had no idea how much the cold was affecting my sleep until our new custom-made cotton-filled duvet came into our lives. A friend helped me order it on Friday, and that evening we were sleeping under it. It’s glorious! Warm and soft and cushy, and under it, I had the best night’s sleep I’ve had since we arrived. In the morning, I was full of vim and vigour, ready to take on the day.
192.  Our apartment is starting to look like a home! Even without our furniture (which will arrive sometime in the next month or so), we are starting to have that moved-in organized feeling. I’ve sorted some of my clothes and they are sitting neatly on a shelf in our closet, the kids each have a bin of their own clothes, and we assembled some shelves and a coat rack we had in our old (furnished) apartment, and things are starting to take shape and feel like home. We’re still eating around a collection of empty bins with a tablecloth slung overtop, but it’s cozy and we’re together. I’m learning that counts for a whole lot.
193.  Memory. More and more Chinese is coming back to me. The other day, one of the kids saw something that reminded them of the shape of a deer, and I actually remembered how to say “deer” in Chinese to explain to our Chinese friend. The brain is a wonderful, mysterious thing. Just where was I storing that tidbit of information over the last couple of years when I didn’t need it?
194.  Flexibility. Our kids had pretty long faces at the airport, leaving Grandma and Grandpa, and while they certainly haven’t forgotten about life in Canada or the people there, they are happy to be reunited with some of their long-lost possessions and busy playing with some of their almost-forgotten toys.
195.  Reunions. We continue to meet up with old friends. I’m looking forward to a particular meeting today. We’re going to see Brandon’s former art teacher. We are taking him some art supplies from Canada, since he can’t always find the quality of supplies here that he would like.
196.   The itch to get back to homeschooling. I am trying to be realistic about what we can accomplish here while it’s still very cold and the furniture is yet to arrive, but as we put our homeschool books away last week, the itch to begin again is definitely there. I think regardless of temperature we’ll move one of the heaters upstairs next week and begin afresh.
197.  My view. There are no curtains on my windows right now–something we do plan to address, but when I wake up in the morning, I look out at a mountain–a small mountain, but a mountain nonetheless. We’re looking forward to climbing it, and plan to do that next week when JavaMan has to be out of town for a few days. He’s already been up it on one of his runs, and says the view is spectacular. Pictures to follow.
198.  My new camera. Finally bought an SD card for my new camera. I’m looking forward to being able to take my own pictures for this blog. Up until now, I’ve had to borrow from my husband or my son. Again, pictures to follow :)
199.   Language learning tools. Maybe a strange thing to be thankful for, but the urge to learn more Chinese is always there as we attempt to communicate. I do very well for having had no formal instruction, but I long to be completely fluent. I’m thankful we’ve found resources that really work to help learn the language. (For more on the resources we use, check out Hold the MSG.com.)

Multitudes on Monday

- Carey Clark

March 3 in 30: Getting There

March 25, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

3in30I’m feeling not too bad about March’s goals. Despite the massive obstacles this month, I think for once I managed to make some realistic goals and so I’m actually getting somewhere with most of them.

  1. Sleep well before the move and beat jet lag as quickly as possible after – I was not doing well in this department and started to fight a cold due to the lack of good sleep. Then a dear Chinese friend came through and showed me where I could buy a custom made cotton-filled duvet (for less than department store prices, mind you). Oh. My. Goodness. It is divine! For two nights now, we have slept in a little cocoon, completely oblivious to the temperature. And whaddaya know? I feel better. I have more energy. I can climb mountains. Well, possibly not the last one, but we plan to soon, since there’s one in our backyard. Seriously.
  2. Maintain a healthy exercise schedule coming into the move so I can get back at it as quickly as possible afterward. Okay, more hefting of heavy bags, more walking up and down the hill to the market. (Actually tonight I ran, since I was trying to make it before they closed.) But no actual exercise. Before we left Canada, we bought a Bodylastics system, and I have every intention of getting into a routine with the Pilates portion of the program, but my exercise mat is doubling as a sleeping pad right now, since we still have no furniture, and I’m feeling it is more important for it to fulfill that role at the moment. I want to get back into using my new favorite exercise video, but I need two five-pound weights. At the moment, we have more important priorities for our spending than that (like a cozy duvet). We also had a bit of a problem. When we moved into this apartment, the hot water in the shower lasted 3 minutes. That’s barely long enough for one person to take a shower! And with the coolness of the apartment, it just didn’t seem like a good combination. I really had no desire to get sweaty and then have only 3 minutes to get unsweaty again. So I avoided sweat. However, the landlord installed a wonderful new hot water heater on Saturday–so wonderful I was able to take a nice hot bath! I’m promising myself that this week I’ll pull out the mini-trampoline and get something accomplished that actually qualifies as exercise.
  3. Finish packing before the move, unpack and organize the kitchen, bathrooms and homeschool room after the move to get things up and rolling ASAP. Did my best at this goal. Still not completely packed, but the homeschool room is looking more or less put together (minus the missing furniture) and the kids each have a bin now with their own clothes inside, in lieu of drawers or closets. I assembled some small shelves so they could organize their belongings and their room actually looks quite lovely. (They’re all sleeping in one room right now, until furniture and heat arrives.) I have begun to sort through my clothing as well, and the kitchen is 90% there and quite functional.

Are you accomplishing your goals this month?

- Carey Clark

Five Minute Friday: Loud

March 23, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

I’m joining The Gypsy Mama again this week for Five Minute Friday. From her site:

Around here we write for five minutes flat on Fridays. We finger paint with words. We try to remember what it was like to just write without worrying if it’s just right or not.

Sounds great to me. This week the theme is “Loud.”

GO

There is a crack and a bang. Cats run away, children scream–my children–no one else seems to notice.

Fireworks just went off a block away. I look out the window, see the tail of a cat streaking in the opposite direction and hear my children laugh. I see against the clear sky the faint lights of fireworks exploding.

It’s the middle of the day. It’s not a national holiday or a special occasion the rest of the world knows about.

Maybe it’s someone’s wedding. Or could be a new business just opened up. There doesn’t have to be a particularly spcial reason. It’s not like Canada, with permits and special days. there are demons to be scared off for just about any old reason. Or the sheer joy of it.

Later, my daughter recalls how she played with a bunch of children once who had firecrackers and were letting them off. “It’s fun,” she says, and I give her the standard lecture about firecrackers and safety and peers and their influence, but I know it’s part of life here.

It’s part of living in China.

And when the fireworks go off the next time, I barely flinch.

STOP

- Carey Clark

Introducing Hold the MSG

March 21, 2012 by Carey Jane Clark

We have long-awaited this moment: the moment we can unveil a project we hope to work on during the duration of our stay in China.

We hope this will give friends and family a window into our everyday lives as well as contribute something valuable to the homeschool community.

Introducing…Hold the MSG.com. This is a new site we launched a while ago, but was apparently hacked or something and vanished in time for me to discover it, earlier today, but it is all better now, in time for the moment to unveil it. Our first video is live and ready to be viewed.

You’ll have to excuse my appearance. I was a little nervous about video in the first place, and figures the first day we scheduled our video, I was feeling the effects of jet lag and fighting a cold. However, the show must go on!

We’d LOVE to hear your feedback. Take a look on over at www.holdthemsg.com.

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