The Family Toolbox Giveaway

I’m excited to be participating in The Family Toolbox Blogger Team! The Family Toolbox is a new resource just released by The National Center for Biblical Parenting. I have been acquainted with their resources for some time and have used their curriculum and books both at home and in small group settings. Their resources are wonderful because they aim at “heart-based” parenting. Instead of just trying to change the behaviors of a child, these parenting strategies aim at heart connections between parent and child. And often it’s not just the child who must change! (Challenging, right?)

I really can’t say enough good things about the parenting resources this company offers. That’s why I’m so excited to be able to offer this wonderful giveaway–which is open INTERNATIONALLY! (Yes, that’s you, my Canadian and expat friends!) The National Center for Biblical Parenting is giving away not just The Family Toolbox, but a host of other wonderful products as well. Read on.

The Family Toolbox is a DVD/video-driven program that brings parents and teens together for constructive dialogue around significant issues of discipleship. Conversation is sparked by engaging video clips. Sixteen Life Success Principles are communicated through eight lessons that give parents and teens biblically-based, practical topics for discussion. The format grabs teens and gets them interacting. The Family Toolbox has 8 lessons. Each one has a 1-2 minute scene of a family living life and experiencing common challenges in their relationships. A discussion guide prompts dialogue between parents and teens and a 10-minute teaching session for parents featuring Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN gives practical tools to use right away. Family Toolbox Giveaway I am excited to be joining with the National Center for Biblical Parenting (NCBP) to bring you a wonderful giveaway to celebrate the release of the Family Toolbox.  The giveaway includes a $50 Amazon Gift Card + a bundle of biblical parenting resources from NCBP, including:

The Christian Parenting Handbook and Companion Guide

The Christian Parenting Handbook contains nuggets of parenting wisdom condensed into 50 short chapters, each one biblical, practical, and relevant for parents of children ages 2-18. Learn appropriate ways to correct, instruct, and set limits. Glean wisdom for dealing with emotions, conflict, and developing closeness in your family… and much more. These 50 strategies provide you with hands-on tools for parenting children of any age.  The Companion Guide is a workbook of 50 lessons along with 50 audio tips to take you through The Christian Parenting Handbook step by step.

Cultivating Responsibility: Parenting Wisdom for Ages 9-12 Years

The later elementary age years are among the greatest times to build responsibility in children. Heart transformation takes place when parents use other tools than behavior modification. Sometimes though, bad attitudes, disrespect, and a lack of cooperation can muddy the waters. You’ll want to learn from the experts how best to navigate these years. Your children are making significant developmental leaps in their cognitive, social, emotional and spiritual growth. Understanding how best to help children through these years is essential.

Family Heart Moments

The Family Heart Moments book is a treasure. Over 70 inspirational true stories from parents who are eager to connect with their children’s hearts. The heart is a special place in the life of a child. You don’t want to miss it. This book will give you practical ideas for touching your kids in the deepest place.

Family Time Activity for Teens

Teenagers are in an exciting time of life. They’re learning a lot about themselves and the world, and they need lots of spiritual guidance. The activities and applications in this book are designed specifically for teens. The object lessons and games are captivating and the biblical lessons are timeless. Walking Billboards, Fear Factor, and Gender Differences, are just a few of the titles. Nineteen lessons are included, all unique and powerful. Make Family Time a regular part of your family’s spiritual growth.

Learning About Sex: Love, Sex, and God

In a natural, conversational style, this book answers tough questions that help teens separate sex and love facts from myths. Straight facts on dating, marriage, sex, and sexually transmitted diseases are presented here.

Say Goodbye to Whining, Complaining and Bad Attitudes, in You and Your Kids

It affects the way people think, the way they act, and the way they treat others around them. Honor motivates parents to treat children differently. It gives children more constructive ways to interact with their parents. It helps siblings develop tolerance and patience. Honor builds incredibly strong bonds that, in turn, benefit all members of the family. This book shows you in practical ways and shows how honor can transform your family. To enter, use the Rafflecopter below. This giveaway is open internationally to those age 18 and older. a Rafflecopter giveaway

  Also, please join us for The Family Toolbox Facebook Party on Thursday, October 16, 8-10PM ET where there will be even more great prizes, an opportunity to ask your parenting questions, and lots of fun and fellowship! The winner of this giveaway will be announced at the Facebook party! RSVP for the Party here: Family Toolbox Facebook Party


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Why We’re Not Homeschooling This Year

In the past, I’ve posted numerous times about the values of homeschooling, my passion for it, and some of the lessons our kids have learned through our homeschool experiences. I remain a passionate supporter of homeschooling. I believe in it 100%.

But we’re not homeschooling this year.

This year, we passed our 4th anniversary of life here in China. While JavaMan and I have been working hard toward fluency, we felt that our kids hadn’t made the kind of language-learning progress we expected when we moved here.

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And looking at things practically, we realized that the best way for our kids to not only reach fluency, but also to feel more at home in the culture in which we live, would be to attend a year at Chinese school.

Our kids have only known homeschool. They love homeschool (almost) as much as I do, and being homeschooled has become part of their identity. Facing the rigors of the Chinese school system–and entering beyond the first grade–wasn’t a challenge that any of them really desired to take on, so it has been a tough decision–on all of us.

We have now, however, survived our first week. They have each entered at a grade level below their Canadian grade, but since Pumpkin would otherwise be entering middle school–an even more difficult task than primary school in China–we felt it gave them each the best chance for success. They have each begun to make friends and to sort out the daily routine.

Were we not in this special set of circumstances, we would very likely be settling in to another year of Mystery of History, Latin, and Life of Fred. We will miss all of that this year, and we will miss each other. But in the end, we believe it will be worth it.

I plan to post udpates from time to time on A Year in Chinese School. Stay tuned for their further adventures.


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Taking Back the Ice Bucket Challenge

Living abroad is interesting for many reasons, not the least of which is the sense of detachment one can often feel to life “back home.” So it is that over the last few weeks, JavaMan and I have watched friends’ videos of the “Ice Bucket Challenge,” and laughed along with the rest of you at their reactions as icy water met warm bodies, but we never thought it would reach out to us here. We were wrong. Now, I’ve been nominated.

We’ve watched friends take the challenge from the southern United States all the way to a woman standing on a chunk of ice in Resolute Bay, Nunavut. We’ve seen the famous join in, from Kermit the Frog to George W. Bush. And perhaps my favorite challenge of all, done up big by Dave Ramsey.

According to the ALS Association in the United States, about $70 million dollars has been raised toward the cause of finding a cure for amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. Pretty impressive for a rare disease that few people knew much about before the summer of 2014! (The statistics for the ALS Canada are somewhat more modest–coming in at around $5.6 million.)

The image of ALS that we’ve seen in social media over the last number of weeks is a sobering one, indeed. Many have seen the story of Anthony Carbajal as shared in this YouTube video (note: parental guidance recommended for suggestive scenes and profanity)

But Ramsey in his video alludes to a concern I’ve had as I’ve watched–about where this money is really going and the kind of research it may support. Ramsey says his donation will be designated so that it won’t fund embryonic stem cell research–research that has the potential to take human lives. Both ALS organizations (in the United States and Canada) have issued statements regarding their position on embryonic stem cell research. Both appear to have limited their research in this area for the time being. More information on the ethics concerns can be found here (though this information pertains mainly to the US organization).

But to be perfectly honest, I’m not sure they’re barking up the right tree. Take a look at the following video, an interview with some people who have developed a potential treatment, currently being researched at the University of South Florida:

Furthermore, did you know that the “ALS Ice Bucket Challenge” actually started a lot longer ago than the summer of 2014 and wasn’t originally designated exclusively to ALS? At one point, it was simply a challenge to donate to the “charity of one’s choice.”

So, JavaMan and I will be donating funds to which is funding the Deanna Protocol research mentioned in the video above. Researchers are hopeful it will eventually help not only those who suffer from ALS, but also other neurodegenerative diseases, such as Alzheimer’s Disease, Parkinson’s Disease, and Multiple Sclerosis. We will also be donating to another charity of our choice. We are taking back the Ice Bucket Challenge!

Ultimately, however, I’m sure the friend who nominated me is interested in seeing me pour a bucket of ice water over my head. She’ll have to be content with a bucket of cold water, since we don’t know of anywhere we can buy ice here (they don’t drink beer cold here in China, let alone soft drinks or water), and all I can supply is the bit of ice in our ice cube tray. So here goes…


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